Because it is the nature of love to create, a marriage itself is something which has to be created, so that, together we become a new creature. To marry is the biggest risk in human relations that a person can take… If we commit ourselves to one person for life this is not, as many people think, a rejection of freedom; rather it demands the courage to move into all the risks of freedom, and the risk of love which is permanent; into that love which is not possession, but participation… It takes a lifetime to learn another person… When love is not possession, but participation, then it is part of that co-creation which is our human calling, and which implies such risk that it is often rejected. Madeleine LEngle
About This Quote

This line from the movie "The Graduate" captures the essence of love. Marriage is not something that is easy to do, but when we commit to one person for life, we are taking a risk. When we choose to love someone this way, we are choosing to do so wholeheartedly and without reservation. We must be brave enough to keep loving and trusting and learning and growing and letting go and giving and receiving and understanding and forgiving and helping and supporting. Because we cannot live without love, we must take our own lives in our hands when we embark on a relationship with someone else.

Source: The Irrational Season

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